Wanting pictures of people's families is worrying and you expect people to explain to you where or if they are employed? How is that "deflecting?" No one owes you any answers. Talking about other people's wives? Are you this weird in "real life?" I hope you're just playing a character on here.When you say talented, popular & successful , you don't mean you do you????
I bet, if you really do have a wife, you read all this out to her don't you, guffawing at your 'amazing humour'.
Notice you didn't answer about the job either. Deflecting again.