There is no available monitor mix of The More You Ignore Me. There are however several hours of tape of Woodie Taylor and Steve Lillywhite pacing back and forth trying to figure out how to make the drums sound even softer and more emasculated.
As for Suedehead, better to ask Vini Reilly, as he wrote all of Viva Hate, every Smiths track, all Moz's solo stuff up through Maladjusted, as well as the first third of The Bible.
Journalists Who Lie? Hmm, can't help you there. I do hear tell of an answerphone message to Morrissey from an HMV exec who had just heard the track, though, wherein the words can be heard, "are you f***ing kidding us?"